This was very out of the blue I was on my way to a Vertalex meeting when I was sent a message by my friend that went like this “So mr discussion, Do you think its ever simple to leave a relationship? Or to forget about the person you once loved” I paused a thought for a second ‘is it every easy to leave a relationship?’ I’ve been in a few relationships all have ended in different way. Some were hard break ups and some were effort less.
I replied to my friend ” You never forget about the people you love even if you fall in love with someone else you still remember the people that came before. Sometimes it is easy so leave a relationship because people can naturally just grow apart or you can both see that its not working. Its harder to leave when its the fact one person dont wanna be in the relationship anymore or because of one mistake. When its one mistake and everything is fine people will wanna leave on principle of coz of pride but were only human people make mistakes all the time its how we grow as people. When one person dosent wanna be in the relationship no more its a sense of abandonment for the other no1 liked the feeling of being left behind that’s what makes moving on hard I guess”.
I personally think moving on is the most challenging thing about being a human being thou a lot of people may think moving on involves leaving something behind I lean more towards the idea that its more about taking everything on-board learning ,accepting and then being able to move forward without any resentment or ill feelings to events or people from the past.
Life is constantly throwing challenges at us that we need to overcome and move on from and the all shape you to be the person you finally become some take longer then others and some get there quickly all that really matters is you get there.
Albert Einstein once said ” Life is like a bicycle. to keep your balance you must keep moving”