Spring Break Playlist 2012 Cancun and Miami

Ray Foxx featuring Lovelle – La Musica

Avicii – Levels

David Guetta – Titanium ft. Sia

Avicii – Fade Into Darkness

LMFAO Sexy and i know it

Pitbull feat. Chris Brown – International Love (Jump Smokers Remix)

Lil Jon – Outta Your Mind ft. LMFAO

Sak Noel – Loca People 

LMFAO – Shots ft. Lil Jon

Gucci Mane – Wasted ft. Plies

Taio Cruz – Hangover ft. Flo Rida

The Wanted – Glad You Came

Rihanna – We Found Love ft. Calvin Harris

Chris Brown – Yeah 3x

Flo Rida – Good Feeling

Nayer Ft. Pitbull & Mohombi – Suavemente

Jennifer Lopez ft. Pitbull – Dance Again

Jennifer Lopez Feat. Pitbull On The Floor

Pitbull feat. Ne-Yo – Give Me Everything – Jump Smokers Remix

David Guetta – Turn Me On ft. Nicki Minaj

Meek Mill feat. Rick Ross – Errrday

Drake – The Motto

Rick Ross – Stay Schemin

Tyga – Rack City

Drake ft. RIhanna – Take care

Chris Brown – Turn Up The Music

DJ Khaled All I Do Is Win

Meek Mill – House Party

Jay-Z & Kanye West – Ni**as In Paris

Lil Wayne – John

Snoop Dogg & Wiz Khalifa – Young, Wild and Free ft. Bruno Mars

Young Jeezy – SupaFreak (Explicit) ft. 2 Chainz

Young Jeezy – F.A.M.E. ft. T.I.

Young Jeezy – Lose My Mind ft. Plies

Young Jeezy – Leave You Alone (Explicit) ft. Ne-Yo

Scavengers in the Club

If you been following my blog you will remember the Gold diggers in the club post i did. Now first of all let me apologize to all the gold diggers i offended, i aint hating get your hustle on, you do you if you aint gonna do the guy buying you drinks all night. Why am i apologizing because i realised it the scavengers in the club we need to be more aware of! I dont mind the gold diggers they atlest make some guys feel like they might get somewhere and are calm about guys buying them a drink.

These scavengers though jheeez is all i can see i mean gosh this chick looked and was shouting like she just won the lotto. I mean i was out with J on Saturday St Patricks we weren’t in one of our usual spots in fact we wont be going back there. We though we would try somewhere new a change of scene to pre-pair us for spring break it was a terrible night we both left on ZIARO across the board definitely wont be taking this form to Cancun or to Miami.

So we were there chilling by the bar like we do when the music aint really to our tastes when this thing (yes thing because of the way she acted and looked) started jumping around I looked and J and he looked at me thinking why is she going nuts then she calls her friends over saying “come quick he’s gonna but us drinks, see I told you we wouldn’t need money tonight”  now let me say i didn’t see the guy that did this so I cant profile him but fucking hell!! Is that how girls are moving these days. Those actions there aren’t the actions of a gold digger, gold diggers can handle themselves the just live of that “why spend mine when I can spend yours mentality”  nothing wrong with that guys run off that ” why use my hand when I can use your pussy” mentality so its an even field (lool as if). But shit rolling with no cash at all that’s a new breed of women and I’m calling them scavengers because they go to to the club to pick up scraps from guys that’s some appalling shit in my books

Wingmen

They are a vital part of any single mans night out. They Wingman. Now i’ve been going out a lot lately  since i started my new job and i have to tell you the standard of wingmen out here is real poor. I’ve seen some appalling performances from wing men in the last month alone.  I fully appreciate the  how willing my current wingman is but we do it for each other we know if there’s a friend that needs distracting  the other one will do it no questions there’s not even a need to ask.

As an example of poor wingmanship  me and my wingman were out on saturday night   having a few drinks in a bar before we went to the club. We got a few drinks hit the dance floor then proceeded to look for some ladies to talk to as we did this we observed some wingmanship that was so bad we actually fought about first hijacking the ladies from the two guys then secondly just going over and being a proper wingman. This guys wingman was not on the case at all his friend was on the right of him while the girls friend was on the far side to him, looking bored. We all know its not a good sign if the friend is bored it means she likely to pull her friend away or tell her she wants to move because no one wants to be the third wheel just hanging on the edge. It was a shocking display from the friend! I mean if two guys go out on the town its assumed that they would both be able to play the wingman role for the other. I couldnt belive it.

Heres a list of a few traits i belive every good wingman should have

  • He understands his mission

A good wingman will give you first choice on a group of girls when you go over to them. He will then start to keep the other one entertained regardless of his interest in her. A good wingman is able to do this with minimal effort.

  • He keeps you presentable

Your wingman should be looking out for you all night. Making sure you dont drink too much and start acting the fool, telling you if your breath is kicking or if you have something on your face . He’s making sure the attention to attract  to yourself is the right kind.

  • He Understands you

You and your wingman have been around each other loads of times so verbal communication isnt needed anymore a simple look or the way you start acting is enough to pass a message on. Even the use of certain words when talking to women could be enough to pass a message on.

  • He prevents cockblocking by running interference 

Its safe to say that in the woman talking to is good looking and will be attracting attention from other guys in the area. This will mean other guys may try to cut into your conversation with her, this is commonly known as cockblocking. You wingman would minimise this by running interference on any other guy trying to get involved while you are and making sure you have the time you need to get the job done.

  • He read the situation

A good wingman is able to read the situation he will know when he needs to jump into the conversation  to move it along and when he needs to back off and let you work your stuff. He is also able to recognize when you are barking up the wrong tree and wont be afraid to let you know that so you dont waste your time with the wrong women.

  • He will sacrifice himself

Your wing man will not be afraid of being shot down by a group of girls. He will initiate on a group of women even if the chances of him succeeding are nill he will put himself on the line for your success. softening up the overall defence of the group so that you can get to the one you want.

  • He Bigs you up

Your wingman will play himself down while elevating your status to the group of women. All the times that you were covered in glory are ready in the forefront of his mind to be retold  to the intended audience. Timing is crucial but he will always have that down to a T.

  • He takes the ugly friend

Sounds mean if your a woman but its how it works unfortunately. If your from the U.K and over the age of 20 you should know the song Butterz Friend .Women do tend to have friends that dont look as good as they do. Its a wingmans sworn duty to take the butters friend, if it is necessary he may even have to take the ugly friend home for the progress of the friend. Its just another way the wingman may sacrifice  himself for you.

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  • He goes undercover

a good wingman is also a great spy. He will go in a gather information for you on the girl that you want, see if she has a boyfriend or if she has bisexual tendencies. He will find out what her turns on/offs are.

  • He pumps you up

A good wingman is a good motivator he will pump you up making sure your confidence is at its peak for the night. He will advise you when to go into action and when to hold back for abit.

I think those are the basic quailties that every wingman should have. Following them will allow you to never let your partner down in he time of need.

 

Gold Diggers in the club

Now i said id probably come back from the club last night with a story and boy i fought the whole “miss independent” “put a ring on it” and “single women” movement had put an end to gold digging……. BOY…was i wrong.
Last night i was treated to a front row seat to a master class in gold digging and the poor guy was completely clueless as this happened. Some would say i should have saved this guy but if you dont know your being played then boy that’s you init.
Anyway we was in the club for my cuzins 22nd shout out to her init!
It was me, my boys jay, my three other cuzins and one of their boys. now we were by our table catching a vibe and a bubble when these two women in Little black dresses came over and decided to sit down, we weren’t reli using the table anyway so it was no fuss to us rather it annoyed my cuzin to find two strangers at her table when she came back. Now after they got unhappily moved to the side these girls danced abit then there was one guy just standing against the wall behind them he looked innocent enough. One of these girls saw him proceeded to back it up on him now it became quickly apparent that the guy wasn’t used to this as he tried to catch the whine but ended up more jus twitching awkwardly behind her making faces like he was about to jizz in his pants and more then anything this is what caught our groups attention. After about 2 songs the girl spoke to her friend who made the drink sign with her hand they whispered abit then the friend started egging the guy on to dance with the girl agen .
I think thats what con artists refer to as the bait and after weakly resisting he then took it hook line and sinker it was game over and it weren’t even 1am after one more song this guy was dragged over to the bar where we saw him buy drinks of the girl he was dancing with and her friend.
Now some people might think he saw some kind of intimacy between
her and him but when a woman wont hold your hand but will drag you across the club threw a crowd to a bar holding onto your wrist like your some kind of rag doll you should realize somethings not right. These girls milked him the whole night then even had the nerve to get off wit some other guy in the corner all i could do wa
s appalled good game i aint a hater you got to work with the talents that god gives you.
But man i thought that shit had stopped im not opposed to buying a woman a drink in the club im all for it what i am opposed to is women who go out to the club either hands swinging or with the intention of finding a sucker to fund them for the whole night i mean it shows women in a negative light… i know the aint perfect but damn and im sure theses are the same women who will be talking that ” i dont need a man” ” i got my own” when they are with their girls or ust trying to blow a guy off.