There was one line in the new fast and the furious movie that got me thinking :
You know, when I was young, my brother always said, “Every man has to have a code.” Mine: Precision. Use what you have, switch them out when you need to until you get the job done. It’s efficient. But you? You’re loyal to a fault. Your code is about family. It makes you predictable. And in our line of work, predictable means vulnerable. And that means I can reach out and break you whenever I want
How true that is everyman should have a code and set of rules that the live buy and wont compromise on. I started to think on what mine was in a way it is very like Doms in FF6 mine is about family I consider everyone of my friends my family their happiness is paramount to me and I will do anything I can to ensure they stay happy. Its not something I will compromise on and in the past I have even sacrificed the things I want so that they can be happy, I wont always make the right decisions morally but I will always try to make the right decision by my friends in my life their happiness makes me happy.
If you been following my blog you will remember the Gold diggers in the club post i did. Now first of all let me apologize to all the gold diggers i offended, i aint hating get your hustle on, you do you if you aint gonna do the guy buying you drinks all night. Why am i apologizing because i realised it the scavengers in the club we need to be more aware of! I dont mind the gold diggers they atlest make some guys feel like they might get somewhere and are calm about guys buying them a drink.
These scavengers though jheeez is all i can see i mean gosh this chick looked and was shouting like she just won the lotto. I mean i was out with J on Saturday St Patricks we weren’t in one of our usual spots in fact we wont be going back there. We though we would try somewhere new a change of scene to pre-pair us for spring break it was a terrible night we both left on ZIARO across the board definitely wont be taking this form to Cancun or to Miami.
So we were there chilling by the bar like we do when the music aint really to our tastes when this thing (yes thing because of the way she acted and looked) started jumping around I looked and J and he looked at me thinking why is she going nuts then she calls her friends over saying “come quick he’s gonna but us drinks, see I told you we wouldn’t need money tonight” now let me say i didn’t see the guy that did this so I cant profile him but fucking hell!! Is that how girls are moving these days. Those actions there aren’t the actions of a gold digger, gold diggers can handle themselves the just live of that “why spend mine when I can spend yours mentality” nothing wrong with that guys run off that ” why use my hand when I can use your pussy” mentality so its an even field (lool as if). But shit rolling with no cash at all that’s a new breed of women and I’m calling them scavengers because they go to to the club to pick up scraps from guys that’s some appalling shit in my books
I know its been a while! Hmmmm excuses excuses ……ah here we go im going spring break so i needed to get read for that. Yup that sounds like a good one.
I’m flying state side Saturday morning and I’m planning to cause all kinds of trouble while I’m over there . I’ve wanted to go spring break since i was 15 so you can be sure I’m going to make the most of it. I’ve got an idea of a few things I’m going to want to try out there so I can blog about them so we got that to look forward to when i come back hopefully pictures and videos as well. I know I’m switching in up a little bit .
Have I packed? hell no!!! actually i’ve been out doing the usual stuff. Thats why I’m back I got some stuff to say now. I’m looking to knock out 5 or 6 posts before I go so be prepared
Well this post was inspired by a new things. One of them was a post that i saw on one of the new blogs I’m following The Essex Bound London Addict shes quiet the opinionated person but the blog that inspired me was written by one of the people she met on a social app called blendr.
Zahid the author of the post states that most people are to weak and giving into their desires, that we should be more determined to go against our desires. Well that cant be right in my opinion its got nothing to do with not being able to control your desires. I think its down to the way that people express themselves and their feelings, women don’t see other women acting “loose” and then decide to be the same give them more credit then that. A world where people didn’t give into their desires would not have the advancements that we have today. Some of the greatest minds in history have been great because they gave into their desires to live the way they want or do the things they wanted even when people said they shouldn’t. Can evolution not be describe as one species desire to be better then they are at this moment in time.
I’m going to keep it on the same level as Zahid though when it comes so sex relationships and interactions between members of the opposite sex. Its not desires that would make a man say to a woman “do you want to see my dick?” I would put that down to a man not being gifted enough to string a decent sentence together but that would be giving them credit there are those who are just twisted that way. Most statements like that come from guys on a dating or social website who have no real people skills or from women who have no respect for themselves and don’t know their real worth.
Giving into your sexual desires aint wrong, its not a fashion trend someone didn’t wake up one day and decided its cool nor is their anyone going around saying this is how you should live your life. If no one is getting hurt whats wrong with it. Why would you fight your desire for someone your not going to be with someone you don’t desire in anyway in fact most relationships/marriages end because there’s no desire for one an other. Desire provides that spark in a relationship, that want, that passion love alone aint enough.
To be fair I’m an each to their own as long as you respect yourself how you live your life is up to you. Everyone is allowed their own opinion even if its and opinion on someone else s opinion.
so im reading a new blog ( actually ive picked up 2 new blogs but im only focusing on this one right now) its Beta to PUA . You may recall Two Shotz post “Journey To PUA “. Where as Two Shotz only did one post Beta started in 2010 and he has been going for 2 years now documenting the challenges, progress and stats of what he has achieved in this time. Looking back and reading through his journey you can see how the PUA market can help people who really need it.
That aside I’m focusing on his most recent post that was titled “Breaking Hearts“. It speaks of how he broke a girls heart the previous day not in a bad way as some people believe PUA is for men who just wanna go out get laid and never see the woman again. Beta felt that the relationship wasn’t working from his point of view. What i think is most important about his post is it then speaks of the sense of loss he feels when ever a relationship of any kind he has comes to an end and the focus on the little things that he will miss about them.
We never really speak of the loss we feel when we come to the end of a relationship but posts like that make me look back and think of all the people that have come in and out of my life and the little things about them and what they brought to my life. Should i be happy for the time i had with them or sad for the fact i let them leave my life . I’ve always said that you should have no regrets in life and learn from everything but i think the only thing you learn from loss is that no matter what you do eventually its always going to happen
So the year is nearly up 2012 is fast aproching and according to the mayan calender it will be the last year for us all. while im not always for looking back since i try to contantly look forward I’m going to take this moment to look back at my 2011 and the things that happend.
My 2011 has been like most peoples full of ups and downs. I feel i have grown alot personally and emotionally in this year. I’ve made mistakes like trying the whole no strings attached thing with my ex, i graduated from university to the delight of my parents, got my first real job and ive come to terms with alot of things that have happend in my life. I made decision about what course i want to take in life and where i want to be. 2011 overall has been a good year for me I will be sad to see it go but i look forward to going into 2012 meeting new people and exploring new things.