What is your code ?

There was one line in the new fast and the furious movie that got me thinking  :

You know, when I was young, my brother always said, “Every man has to have a code.” Mine: Precision. Use what you have, switch them out when you need to until you get the job done. It’s efficient. But you? You’re loyal to a fault. Your code is about family. It makes you predictable. And in our line of work, predictable means vulnerable. And that means I can reach out and break you whenever I want

How true that is everyman should have a code and set of rules that the live buy and wont compromise on. I started to think on what mine was in a way it is very like Doms in FF6 mine is about family I consider everyone of my friends my family their happiness is paramount to me and I will do anything I can to ensure they stay happy. Its not something I will compromise on and in the past I have even sacrificed the things I want so that they can be happy,  I wont always make the right decisions morally but I will always try to make the right decision by my friends in my life their happiness makes me happy.

What code you live by ?

Advertisements

Spring Break Playlist 2012 Cancun and Miami

Ray Foxx featuring Lovelle – La Musica

Avicii – Levels

David Guetta – Titanium ft. Sia

Avicii – Fade Into Darkness

LMFAO Sexy and i know it

Pitbull feat. Chris Brown – International Love (Jump Smokers Remix)

Lil Jon – Outta Your Mind ft. LMFAO

Sak Noel – Loca People 

LMFAO – Shots ft. Lil Jon

Gucci Mane – Wasted ft. Plies

Taio Cruz – Hangover ft. Flo Rida

The Wanted – Glad You Came

Rihanna – We Found Love ft. Calvin Harris

Chris Brown – Yeah 3x

Flo Rida – Good Feeling

Nayer Ft. Pitbull & Mohombi – Suavemente

Jennifer Lopez ft. Pitbull – Dance Again

Jennifer Lopez Feat. Pitbull On The Floor

Pitbull feat. Ne-Yo – Give Me Everything – Jump Smokers Remix

David Guetta – Turn Me On ft. Nicki Minaj

Meek Mill feat. Rick Ross – Errrday

Drake – The Motto

Rick Ross – Stay Schemin

Tyga – Rack City

Drake ft. RIhanna – Take care

Chris Brown – Turn Up The Music

DJ Khaled All I Do Is Win

Meek Mill – House Party

Jay-Z & Kanye West – Ni**as In Paris

Lil Wayne – John

Snoop Dogg & Wiz Khalifa – Young, Wild and Free ft. Bruno Mars

Young Jeezy – SupaFreak (Explicit) ft. 2 Chainz

Young Jeezy – F.A.M.E. ft. T.I.

Young Jeezy – Lose My Mind ft. Plies

Young Jeezy – Leave You Alone (Explicit) ft. Ne-Yo

Scavengers in the Club

If you been following my blog you will remember the Gold diggers in the club post i did. Now first of all let me apologize to all the gold diggers i offended, i aint hating get your hustle on, you do you if you aint gonna do the guy buying you drinks all night. Why am i apologizing because i realised it the scavengers in the club we need to be more aware of! I dont mind the gold diggers they atlest make some guys feel like they might get somewhere and are calm about guys buying them a drink.

These scavengers though jheeez is all i can see i mean gosh this chick looked and was shouting like she just won the lotto. I mean i was out with J on Saturday St Patricks we weren’t in one of our usual spots in fact we wont be going back there. We though we would try somewhere new a change of scene to pre-pair us for spring break it was a terrible night we both left on ZIARO across the board definitely wont be taking this form to Cancun or to Miami.

So we were there chilling by the bar like we do when the music aint really to our tastes when this thing (yes thing because of the way she acted and looked) started jumping around I looked and J and he looked at me thinking why is she going nuts then she calls her friends over saying “come quick he’s gonna but us drinks, see I told you we wouldn’t need money tonight”  now let me say i didn’t see the guy that did this so I cant profile him but fucking hell!! Is that how girls are moving these days. Those actions there aren’t the actions of a gold digger, gold diggers can handle themselves the just live of that “why spend mine when I can spend yours mentality”  nothing wrong with that guys run off that ” why use my hand when I can use your pussy” mentality so its an even field (lool as if). But shit rolling with no cash at all that’s a new breed of women and I’m calling them scavengers because they go to to the club to pick up scraps from guys that’s some appalling shit in my books

Its been a while

I know its been a while! Hmmmm excuses excuses ……ah here we go im going spring break so i needed to get read for that. Yup that sounds like a good one.

I’m  flying state side Saturday morning and I’m planning to cause all kinds of trouble while I’m over there . I’ve wanted to go spring break since i was 15 so you can be sure I’m going to make the most of it. I’ve got an idea of a few things I’m going to want to try out there so I can blog about them so we got that to look forward to when i come back hopefully pictures and videos as well. I know I’m switching in up a little bit .

Have I packed? hell no!!! actually i’ve been out doing the usual stuff. Thats why I’m back I got some stuff to say now. I’m looking to knock out 5 or 6 posts before I go so be prepared

Hearts, Loss and PUA

so im reading a new blog ( actually ive picked up 2 new blogs but im only focusing on this one right now) its Beta to PUA . You may recall Two Shotz post “Journey To PUA “. Where as Two Shotz only did one post Beta started in 2010 and he has been going for 2 years now documenting the challenges, progress and stats of what he has achieved in this time. Looking back and reading through his journey you can see how the PUA market can help people who really need it.

That aside I’m focusing on his most recent post that was titled “Breaking Hearts“. It speaks of how he broke a girls heart the previous day not in a bad way as some people believe PUA is for men who just wanna go out get laid and never see the woman again. Beta felt that the relationship wasn’t working from his point of view. What i think is most important about his post is it then speaks of the sense of loss he feels when ever a relationship of any kind he has comes to an end and the focus on the little things that he will miss about them.

We never really speak of the loss we feel when we come to the end of a relationship but posts like that make me look back and think of all the people that have come in and out of my life and the little things about them and what they brought to my life. Should i be happy for the time i had with them or sad for the fact i let them leave my life . I’ve always said that you should have no regrets in life and learn from everything  but i think the only thing you learn from loss is that no matter what you do eventually its always going to happen

Wingmen

They are a vital part of any single mans night out. They Wingman. Now i’ve been going out a lot lately  since i started my new job and i have to tell you the standard of wingmen out here is real poor. I’ve seen some appalling performances from wing men in the last month alone.  I fully appreciate the  how willing my current wingman is but we do it for each other we know if there’s a friend that needs distracting  the other one will do it no questions there’s not even a need to ask.

As an example of poor wingmanship  me and my wingman were out on saturday night   having a few drinks in a bar before we went to the club. We got a few drinks hit the dance floor then proceeded to look for some ladies to talk to as we did this we observed some wingmanship that was so bad we actually fought about first hijacking the ladies from the two guys then secondly just going over and being a proper wingman. This guys wingman was not on the case at all his friend was on the right of him while the girls friend was on the far side to him, looking bored. We all know its not a good sign if the friend is bored it means she likely to pull her friend away or tell her she wants to move because no one wants to be the third wheel just hanging on the edge. It was a shocking display from the friend! I mean if two guys go out on the town its assumed that they would both be able to play the wingman role for the other. I couldnt belive it.

Heres a list of a few traits i belive every good wingman should have

  • He understands his mission

A good wingman will give you first choice on a group of girls when you go over to them. He will then start to keep the other one entertained regardless of his interest in her. A good wingman is able to do this with minimal effort.

  • He keeps you presentable

Your wingman should be looking out for you all night. Making sure you dont drink too much and start acting the fool, telling you if your breath is kicking or if you have something on your face . He’s making sure the attention to attract  to yourself is the right kind.

  • He Understands you

You and your wingman have been around each other loads of times so verbal communication isnt needed anymore a simple look or the way you start acting is enough to pass a message on. Even the use of certain words when talking to women could be enough to pass a message on.

  • He prevents cockblocking by running interference 

Its safe to say that in the woman talking to is good looking and will be attracting attention from other guys in the area. This will mean other guys may try to cut into your conversation with her, this is commonly known as cockblocking. You wingman would minimise this by running interference on any other guy trying to get involved while you are and making sure you have the time you need to get the job done.

  • He read the situation

A good wingman is able to read the situation he will know when he needs to jump into the conversation  to move it along and when he needs to back off and let you work your stuff. He is also able to recognize when you are barking up the wrong tree and wont be afraid to let you know that so you dont waste your time with the wrong women.

  • He will sacrifice himself

Your wing man will not be afraid of being shot down by a group of girls. He will initiate on a group of women even if the chances of him succeeding are nill he will put himself on the line for your success. softening up the overall defence of the group so that you can get to the one you want.

  • He Bigs you up

Your wingman will play himself down while elevating your status to the group of women. All the times that you were covered in glory are ready in the forefront of his mind to be retold  to the intended audience. Timing is crucial but he will always have that down to a T.

  • He takes the ugly friend

Sounds mean if your a woman but its how it works unfortunately. If your from the U.K and over the age of 20 you should know the song Butterz Friend .Women do tend to have friends that dont look as good as they do. Its a wingmans sworn duty to take the butters friend, if it is necessary he may even have to take the ugly friend home for the progress of the friend. Its just another way the wingman may sacrifice  himself for you.

i got this

  • He goes undercover

a good wingman is also a great spy. He will go in a gather information for you on the girl that you want, see if she has a boyfriend or if she has bisexual tendencies. He will find out what her turns on/offs are.

  • He pumps you up

A good wingman is a good motivator he will pump you up making sure your confidence is at its peak for the night. He will advise you when to go into action and when to hold back for abit.

I think those are the basic quailties that every wingman should have. Following them will allow you to never let your partner down in he time of need.

 

A review of my 2011

So the year is nearly up 2012 is fast aproching and according to the mayan calender it will be the last year for us all. while im not always for looking back since i try to contantly look forward I’m going to take this moment to look back at my 2011 and the things that happend.

My 2011 has been like most peoples full of ups and downs. I feel i have grown alot personally and emotionally in this year. I’ve made mistakes like trying the whole no strings attached thing with my ex, i graduated from university to the delight of my parents, got my first real job and ive come to terms with alot of things that have happend in my life. I made decision about what course i want to take in life and where i want to be. 2011 overall has been a good year for me I will be sad to see it go but i look forward to going into 2012 meeting new people and exploring new things.